This past month, I took a ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ช๐™จ๐™š (January 2021) to re-connect, re-focus and re-group. I had to, to produce better content, better videos, be a better Coach and most importantly a better me. That detox has been good!

There are 3 things (success habits) that have really resonated with me that I want to share with you as we commence the second month of this New Year:

๐Ÿญ. ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐˜€ (๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต)

There is power in our values, they are our internal compass. In a recent session with one of my mentors, an outstanding Woman of Influence*, she asked me this simple beautiful question, แดกสœแด€แด› แด€ส€แด‡ สแดแดœส€ แด„แดส€แด‡ แด แด€สŸแดœแด‡๊œฑ แด€ษดแด… แด›สœแด‡ แด›แดแด˜ 5 สแดแดœ แดกษชสŸสŸ สŸษชแด แด‡ ส™ส แด›สœษช๊œฑ สแด‡แด€ส€?

It brought me clarity and alignment as I actively choose to always honour my values and vision, no matter the adversity.

Ask yourself, and honour who you are.

๐Ÿฎ. ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ

I really believe that one of the main keys to success is how we manage and own our time. I can testify that waking up at 5am consistently with a structured routine of mindset, exercise and strategy has been a game changer in my own life, and equally going to bed by a certain time with a wind down routine is sweeter than honey! What is your morning and evening routine? Think about how you can use this tip to maximise your time and quality of life. Book recommendation: '๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ 5๐˜ข๐˜ฎ ๐˜Š๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ฃ ๐˜ฃ๐˜บ ๐˜™๐˜ฐ๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜š๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข'

๐Ÿฏ. ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜, ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜, ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป

''๐˜š๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ด 90% ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ 10% ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜จ๐˜บ" - I couldn't agree more Tony! The mindset and inner work pays off the highest dividends. What mindset and inner work are you doing currently? It's one thing to have a vision but one must have the capacity to execute that vision, which takes mindset work. Keep working on you to get your goals and achieve that vision for your life.

*Check out Marielle Legair, Women Who Influence

Nelly xx

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Allow me to re-introduce myself; I am Nelly Elessa, Confidence Coach, Writer and Workshop Facilitator. I am obsessed with confidence and success strategies, making empowering videos and writing for transformation. I help professionals who are held back by timidity, fear and self-doubt lose their limits and build unshakeable confidence to live the life they want in work, and in life.

Practices in this blog are suggestions only based on my experience. Please carry out your own research and seek professional advice if you need to. Remember, you've got this and you are great ๐Ÿค

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